How Can I Tell If My Ex Boyfriend Still Likes Me? A Simple Observation Will Expose the Truth!

You broke up with your guy and now you find yourself thinking about him and wondering if your boyfriend still likes you. Instead of spending countless hours, days, or even years wondering what his true feelings are, your best bet is to pay attention to what he's asking. I'm not talking about what he's asking you (though this advice will certainly apply to that as well), but more so what he's asking of others.

See, people that are in love generally like to know what the person they're in love with is doing - how his/her life is going, if they found a new partner, anything. In the cases where two loving couples break up, there will likely be some attempt of one or both to keep tabs on the other. I'm not talking about stalking! I'm just talking about maintaining a general interest.

For example, does your ex boyfriend still communicate with your Mother, Father or maybe a Brother or Sister? If so, gently ask your family what is being discussed. If you start hearing things like "oh, he/she just asks how you're doing" or "they're wondering if you found anyone else" or even "they're wondering how you're doing with the break up". These are all indicators of someone with lingering feelings.

However, there are some boyfriends that harbor lingering feelings yet never utter a word about it to anyone. Some girlfriends are the same way. It doesn't mean they don't still care (though they may not), it could mean that they just don't want to be hurt again, and they think the best way to not be hurt again is to act like you have no remaining interest.

Having lingering feelings isn't bad. In fact, you asking this question is a pretty decent indicator that you still have some lingering feelings for your ex boyfriend, and that's not a bad thing, either. Even the best relationships go through temporary break ups and separations. The most unfortunate part is when two loving couples break up and neither ever takes the necessary actions to reconnect with their partner.

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See my amazing story on how I won my ex back.

Losing Your Love and Dealing With the Holidays - Sucks!

The holidays are supposed to be a time of joy and happiness. You spend time with family, friends, and most importantly, the person you're in love with. The problem is, you just broke up. This could through a real big monkey wrench in your holiday happiness.

What do you do in this circumstance?

Nothing, really. If it was your first holiday after your break up, then there's just no getting around it, this holiday simply won't be the same for you.

But take note that it will get easier in time. If you lost your boyfriend or girlfriend and it was never a strong relationship then you're probably better off without them. You'll find someone else. Plenty of fish in the sea, as my Mom used to say. LOL.

However, if you're having second thoughts about the split, and you miss the good times you had with your ex boyfriend or girlfriend, then maybe you should try to reconnect with them.

Sometime relationships break up for all the wrong reason - perfectly good relationships. If you feel your relationship needs a second chance then go after it! Make that your New Year resolution - to win back the love that made you happy.

Believe me, I was in this boat. The holidays flat out sucked after our break up. In fact, life sucked. We're back together now and couldn't be happier.

Whatever you do, good luck!